Resources
Permission to feel joy
“When did you last experience pure joy?”
I asked this question to myself on the New Year’s Eve.
As an advocate for embracing the richness of life’s experiences, and acknowledging unpleasant emotions,
Navigating our own distress in the face of another's pain
Life is field with grief, sorrow, hardship, misery, and pain. Ironically, during our formative years, we were more likely to learn about the number of soldiers fought in historical wars than how to name our feelings, how to support ourselves and others during distress, or how to show empathy.
Knowing vs. Acting on Your Values
Perhaps it’s the fast-paced modern life, the relentless busyness, information overload, the fear of missing out, or the discomfort of commitment. Whatever the reason, many of us find ourselves caught in a common dilemma: a wide gap between talking about our values and truly living them out.
How my little social experiments led to richer interactions
About four years ago, I entered a lift on the 11th floor to go to the ground floor of a building.
Comfort feels good, until it doesn't
Imagine you’re embarking on a train trip to your desired destination. When you get to the station, you’re faced with a choice between two trains. One appears a bit old, with uncomfortable and slightly dirty seats, the other looks much more comfortable and induces reliability.
Making prevention as sexy as remediation
In a world full of tales of triumph over adversity, some heroes often go unnoticed—the ones who prevent crises before they arise. While society idolises those who bounce back from the brink, the concept of prevention remains undervalued.
Is there something wrong with me?
Do you remember the day- or, if you’re not old enough to recall, perhaps you've read or heard about it—when cereals were promoted as essential for our health due to their nutritious content?
Why the famous “avoid stress” advice is useless
Recently, I accompanied a friend of mine to a doctor because she has been experiencing some health issues. During our second visit, after completing some tests, the doctor prescribed medication and concluded with the same old, well-intentioned advice: “You should avoid stress!”
No sun without shadow
You’re probably familiar with the story of Sisyphus. You know, the Greek myth where a king is given the eternal punishment of rolling a large boulder up a hill, only for it to roll back to the bottom every time.
Uncommitment
In my previous post, I shared how to say no to non-essential requests. I talked about the importance of focusing on getting the right things done instead of doing everything you can. This is how you achieve efficiency while protecting your wellbeing.
Saying no takes courage, but it’s worth it
I have a confession to make. I’ve been enjoying saying no. I’ve been turning down requests to participate in new projects, saying no thanks to invitations to speak, and declining demands on my time across the board.
How leaders can prevent employee burnout
Let’s talk about burnout—that physical-emotional feeling that you can’t carry on with your job for one more Zoom call without losing your mind—and how leaders can prevent it.
This is why your self-doubt seems unfixable
I remember my first session as a professional therapist. I’d just completed my certification and was eager to help people.
Leading well despite the uncertainty and discomfort
As a leader of a team, and someone who works with leaders to help them stay emotionally well, I’ve witnessed…
How to be resilient
Life is unpredictable. Brace yourself with a suite of coping mechanisms, internal and external…
The power of putting psychological strengths into work
Psychological strengths are positive traits that are personally fulfilling. They promote adjustment…
Things you should know before you start a wellbeing initiative at the workplace
Many employees suffer from poor mental health and wellbeing. According to a recent report published in 2019, two out of every five employees in the UK…
How to build and maintain habits
Creating healthy and desired habits can lead one to live a better life. However, forming and maintaining them can be quite challenging…
Emotional flexibility is the key to wellbeing
One of the best gifts that you can give yourself is learning emotional flexibility skills…
How to cultivate meaning in life
We are all faced with challenging, yet essential questions that help us understand meaning and purpose in life. Do I feel that…